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alizardinlaw:

nephyria:

nephyria:


Hello! Once again, my silly little body is receiving A Trial, nay, An Organized Revolt via its local population (Gut Bacteria Cohort and The Immune Lobby) and while I’m normally like “yaaay I love rebellion against The Man, tear them limb from limb” I am. Unfortunately. The Man. They also hired mercs or like, sent the gut bacteria to stage a simultaneous uprising in my lungs??? Which had!!! NOTHING to do with this!!! And I need to figure out why they’re all mad so we all remain Housed (body’s microorganism residents) and Alive (the Jello of my Brain, The Wet Mess Of The Self).

Anyway I need to be shot into the emergency room and for only $10 USD (2 orders of crabs) or less, you can contribute to the fancy gurney that they’ll strap me onto. It’s going to be like an international mattress jousting competition in those Lysol’d halls. I’m ineligible for aaaaaaany assistance so far, due to stuff explained at the link, and I have no insurance coverage, and I live in that hellscape of the United States Of America, where everything costs too much and the lives don’t matter. So if you wanna lube up the wheels on this race to Not Get Sepsis consider sharing the link, reblogging, or donating!

oh ok the goal was. met. In 2 hours. I’m crying into my hands, thank you all so much. The world is full of love and it’s bc everybody makes it that way

Even though the goal is met, with no insurance, 2000 dollars is not going to cover much of anything, not even the entirety of the ER visit. My sibling set a low goal because they did not expect much of a response. A real estimate is probably somewhere in the 18000 dollar range at LEAST. If you could help them meet their stretch goals (and you will see why they are super duper fucked from all angles by the healthcare system and the government if you read their gofundme description!), by reblogging and sharing and even if you know a specialist in the industry or someone in disability law, charity funding etc, pls let us know! Please help keep my sibling alive.

Oh, the goal was set at $2,000 because it is Literally meant to just get me into the building. It’s not even for receiving care and tests, those are the intake fees.

Total charge = triage fees + facility fees + professional fees + supplies. When you get registered as a patient at the ER, you get charged a triage fee, typically $200-$1000. Next, when you are assigned to a room, you will incur a facility charge of $1,118, covering your time in the room and nurses’ time. Contrary to common beliefs, the attending physician or professional fees are not included within the facility charge and often get billed separately, along with any medications or medical supplies during your visit.ALT

I didn’t expect it getting funded that quickly or fully, true, but more in a “I gave myself a week of lead time so that whatever was donated could be transferred + seeing if the respiratory thing clears up on its own” way. The If I Die, I Die approach.

I’ve seen my previous bills for ER visits before insurance covered it and uh. I will be honest. $18,000 is not even ¼ of those numbers. So I’d rather make sure people are able to eat and afford their own rent and medical care before even Considering denting that brick wall of medical debt.

pleuvoire:

regular plea for people to stop using this as a reaction image

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this is a real sentence that was said by a real newscaster (norm macdonald) in response to a real news story - specifically, the murder of brandon teena, a trans man, whose death macdonald is mocking here. this very sentence that has now been turned into a meme prompted a trans rights org to picket the nbc in absence of any apology from them (the statement here slightly misquotes the sentence, but you can find video demonstrating that the wording in the image is what he said). i’ve used this as a reaction image in the past when i didn’t know the history behind it but i think more people should know and we should stop using it like this

herpsandbirds:

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Pileated Woodpeckers (Dryocopus pileatus) father with chicks, family Picidae, United States

photograph by Lisa Malone
https://www.instagram.com/lisatoonmalone/

txttletale:

either tumblr’s moderation staff is actively transmisogynistic or they have completely automated community label reviews and their automated system is, because of its training sets, transmisogynistic. and to be clear i think the second one is both more likely and also worse

t4t4t:

t4t4t:

hi two homeless trans women still struggling thru unemployment, found a nail in a tire of the van we live in recently and replaced it and that was like 300, and uh we have a gym membership we’re late making payments to that’s like 100. uh. and electrolysis still isnt free, hopefully it is soon lol. and so on. anything helps

paypal.me/NoraEstherRose

venmo: nora-esther-rose

hi we’ve only gotten 35 from this.

tacticaltaxonomist:

Declutter Tumblr

The new layout it a whole mess. Thankfully Xkit can already help with a bunch of this! I’m sure it’ll give more options soon.

Vanilla Tumblr:
(I have marked in red what can be removed. The tabs can be set not to stick, so you will really only see them at the top of your dash. Empty box on the left for hidden notifications and shop sparkle, i just didn’t have any. I’m EU so no Live for me).

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Xkit Rewritten Tumblr:

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The settings I use:

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pitbolshevik:

pitbolshevik:

having the right animal welfare opinions means absolutely nothing if you don’t also care about human beings

programs like beyond fences will always be more helpful to both people and animals than the dumb misanthropic “animals good humans bad” bullshit

forknightshonor:

Hell yea great food they know IT

wheelievampire:

flowercrowncrip:

Today (July 19th) is Changing Places awareness day!

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[Image description: a photo of the changing places toilet with the features listed below /end ID]

What is a changing places toilet?

A changing places toilet is a toilet which can be used by disabled people like me who can’t use a standard accessible toilet. This may be because someone needs extra equipment, and/or room for carers to help them. The main features of the changing places toilet are:

  1. Lots of room! Changing places toilet must be at least 12 square metres. This means that there is plenty of room for a wheelchair user to turn around as well as room for up to 2 carers.
  2. A peninsular toilet! This is a toilet which has enough room on each side were wheelchair to be positioned for transferring. As with standard accessible toilet there are grab rails on each side.
  3. Accessible washbasin! The washbasin must have room underneath for a wheelchair user. An adjustable height washbasin is preferred.
  4. A ceiling hoist! This allows people who cannot transfer independently to be able to safely get out of their wheelchair. A person brings their own sling which is hooked onto the hoist allowing them to be lifted.
  5. An adult size changing table! This allows people need help with undressing to use the toilet, or help changing incontinence pads to have their needs met safely and with dignity. Without a changing table, many people have to resort to lying on the toilet floor to change their pads which is unsafe, undignified and unhygienic.

Why raise awareness?

The lack of changing places toilet means it’s hard for disabled people like me to leave the house. It’s limits our ability to socialise, access work/education, exercise, travel, and even attend hospital appointments. (In the UK there are only 93 hospitals with a registered changing places toilet).

I have to plan my entire life around the few changing places toilet that exist, which massively shrinks my world. It’s incredibly difficult for me to travel (less than 2% of train stations in the UK have a changing places toilet), go days out, visit the hospital, and otherwise experience the world outside my house. Hopefully one day every event like Pride or music festivals will have a mobile changing places toilet, and there will be public changing places toilet with 24/7 access in every town, as well as changing places toilets in public buildings like leisure centres, libraries, museums, cinemas, tourist attractions and shopping centres.


More info including what you can do to help the UK campaigns for more changing places toilets can be found at changing-places.org

i was interested to learn more about changing places outside of the UK, and i found, from what looks like the same organization, this international map + this Florida/Georgia/Alabama project to install more, in case anyone is in the same area and would like to learn! we apparently only have one in my city, seven in my state, which is absolutely not enough to let people go about their days freely.

vsvitrix:

thisismygnomeface:

nephyria:

vsvitrix:

vsvitrix:

So, yeah, my GPU died last night. It “works” in so far as I can get a video out on it and it’ll technically do things, but everything artifacts and flickers if it’s not on the desktop, to the point that even if it was completely stable I couldn’t record or stream with it because it could actually be a danger to someone watching.

Sometimes my computer will POST and blue screen when it gets to Windows, sometimes it will just lock up at POST with a GPU error code and light, sometimes it’ll let me into bios and then lock up, when I can get into windows the drivers fail to reinstall; it’s completely random.

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I do not have the money to replace it, and my husband got laid off last month leaving the patreon for my youtube channel and streams as our sole source of income outside of his severance. I can’t really take the GPU from his computer because the company he used to work for decided to cut some agreements short and took his work laptop back before they originally said they would, which means he needs his PC to be able to look for work and stuff.

I’m really tired of asking for help, but replacing it so I can get back to work and possibly start doing some freelance editing and stuff to try to make rent for next month is REALLY important right now, so if you can help, that would be amazing.

Ko-fi

Paypal

Cash

$3/$600

$342/600

Halfway there!! if you’d like A Friend Or Creature in exchange for dollars, aforementioned husband sells crochet buddies on the ko-fi store, and does custom commissions too!

buddies like this :) 

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My husband makes cool stuff. You should buy it.

disgustinghuman:

I’m pretty interested in eating a lot of bread